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Qur’anic guidance for marriage
Verses for reflecting on tranquillity, mercy and building a family.
Affection and mercy
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
Meaning of the verse
“And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He placed between you affection and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect.”
Surah Ar-Rum, verse 21 — 30:21
Reflection
Marriage is nurtured through tranquillity, affection, kindness and mercy.
Prayer for a family
وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Meaning of the verse
“Our Lord! Bless us with spouses and offspring who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous.”
Surah Al-Furqan, verse 74 — 25:74
Reflection
This prayer reminds us that a family is built through faith, responsibility and good example.
For detailed religious interpretation, consult a qualified scholar.
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